The Drama of It All

The Drama of It All

You Gotta Be Humble When Mistaken

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Barbara Wegner
Aug 17, 2024
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In a way, I got mixed up in some Drama Triangle thinking this past week. I’m a bit embarrassed about it. This isn’t the first time I’ve written about that. I wrote about feeling like a victim here. I’m not perfect. I grew up with a Drama Triangle dynamic and it takes a while to get out of old habits.

Andrew | Dad Explains
wrote a note about
Sigma Game
not giving
Coleman
real credit for quotes from him in the article Fixing Toxic Masculinity, which has now been fixed. Although I think Coleman is quite capable of doing things for himself, and he didn’t care, I got upset, not overly upset, but I wasn’t really myself and I’ll explain that later in the article. I wish I hadn’t even posted about it, because it’s embarrassing now, but embarrassment and humility are good for us. I think that’s part of what I was supposed to be learning the last few days.

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